Need help with a newborn?

We all need Help Raising Children

Having Grandchildren is one of the greatest feelings I have ever experienced in my life. Now I’m at a juncture in my life when I can devote one hundred percent of my feelings and thus am enjoying the new bees with observations and feelings I’ve never had time to really totally appreciate before. Playing my part in raising my two sons required working and making ends meet and that interfered with that special bond that everyone should maintain with their children. Its not that I neglected my children it was just there’s only so much time in a day for focusing total attention on them. So even with everything going for you doesn’t mean the path of raising children is going to be an easy one. Now add to the equation no husband, job, support and being a young new bee yourself and then imagine the thoughts that are going thru your brain?

Always Be Prepared for Sex

Unprepared pregnancies are creeping up at an alarming rate in the society of the world today and dealing with this situation is as complicated as life can be. I can’t speak to the feelings that a woman must feel when confronted with this life-altering happening. Of course the best option to prevent this situation would have been to have sustained or used preventive measures which avoid having the sperm reach their goal like the salmon does when it makes is journey up stream to laid its eggs and then die in the process.

Don't Take a Life Whethers Its yours or the Baby

Every second of every day this human joining experience is being played out and the two involved may not be up to the task because of their age and the lack of basic tools of training and help. To avoid this situation by putting your head in the sand wont help dealing with the problem. Sometimes children beget children and then things happen that makes us all want to shout get help and don’t just let situations that play out that lead the new one on a collision course of not surviving. We all fear and sometimes that fear so overwhelms us that we do things that wont let us live with ourselves and then we do ourselves in by taking pills, jumping off bridges or driving and drinking till the pain subsides because we connected with an immovable object and then find peace by being dead. But don’t let this be the carvings on you tombstone. Yes facing the situation can be the toughest thing you may ever do in your life, but taking your life is wrong for many reasons especially because the creator would not smile at that moment.

Give Babies to Someone Else

Today many states have drop off and no questions asked policies. All you have to do is deliver the child to a responsible person and just walk away and know fault would be directed to you. This type of policy has been developed to prevent possible harm to the children and asks nothing of the Mother. Rather then the days of the past when babies died by being left somewhere for someone to find them.

Do Right by the Baby

If this is you or someone you know please take the time to explain this course of action and tell them there’s no shame in doing the right thing for the newborn and in the process save your soul.


Don L. Terrill

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